my thoughts on premarital sex.

my opinion on why people should not have premarital sex...

Sex is a sacred, intimate act that is meant to be shared between a man and woman under a covenant of marriage. God MADE us to do it that way. We are made to share it with our spouse and only our spouse. Having sex with someone who is just your girlfriend or just your boyfriend has deep, impacting consequences. By having premarital sex, people who aren't meant to be together end up thinking they should be together and stay together BECAUSE they shared something SO intimate and SACRED with each other. So here the two of you are. You are terrible for one another and shouldn't be together, not now- maybe not ever, but most certainly not NOW. But here you are, not able to let each other go. You both know why, you don't need anyone else to TELL you. You know it's because of having premarital sex and losing your virginity to each other. Now you can't let each other go, when everything else has fallen apart between the two of you... you think you have some kind of special love together because you guys shared sex. So you did share an intimate, sacred thing together... understandable. But you can both start anew, fresh, clean. You can start new if you would just let each other go. Because sex doesn't hold a relationship together- LOVE does. And true love comes from God. God meant for sex to come only under a covenant-- a PROMISE-- of marriage between a man and a woman. You did not have sex the way God made us to have it, so you won't find any true love and you don't share true love- you just shared a sexual experience. Nothing more, nothing less. It was meant to be SO much more. So much more. That's what I think at least...

El Fin!